Joyce, who was passionate about writing continues this way, from the moment a girl is born till she passes away, she confronts many challenges. When a woman is carrying a baby in her womb, some in-laws will expect a baby boy, if the daughter-in-law delivers a baby girl they get disappointed. The woman who carries a baby will start facing all harassment and sometimes even her partner starts verbal abuse. Let's consider that the woman got discharged from the hospital a few days of her delivery, this time the in-laws target the baby girl. The journey of this baby from here begins with PAIN. Every day the small baby goes through great suffering because the people at home will not allow her mom to feed the baby, rather ask her to work for them as a servant. The mother hardly gets time to feed her baby. The years go by and the baby grows into a school-going kid, then the girl tries to manage things at home, as the present generation kids have got a great intelligence and catch things too fast. Furthermore, when she turns 12 years of age, she starts facing two-way pain, i.e., on one hand, she encounters the words in her place, on the other hand, she also meets new people here the same peer friends start teasing her, especially by the opposite sex (male). However the journey from 10th grade to the rest of her life is such a great challenge for her, also has become desperate nowadays.

Joyce, emphasizes the arena of a girl being desperate, she says I call it desperate, because of the wretched people in the society who are responsible for the deaths of many women. Let me continue, the journey of a girl from 10th grade, that’s the age when a girl slightly gets maturity. She remains in a state of dilemma in making decisions. So the moment she confronts any misbehavior by the people, she makes an effort to resist it and somehow manages to escape the first time and will not reveal the things to anyone. Later, when she gets older and gets admitted into college to pursue her further education, she will come across many people with varied mindsets, therefore she would take time to know and understand the people around them. By the time she realizes the men who were observing her since the day she joined will plot some plan to trap her. Most of the girls fall for their tricks, while only a few will remain alert. Now imagine if a girl has not accepted the boy to be her close friend, there the girl experiences a great conflict, and the very next day, the boy decides to spoil her life, in the process of a plan to trap her, he forgets that even his mom is a woman and he loses his conscience, humanity, respect etc, and chooses the wrong path to assault a girl. However, sometimes if a girl is strong enough and starts being mature, initially she won't spend her time making such friends and she will try not to go out alone, then she somehow crosses her graduation too. Now it's time to be independent, meaning she expects herself to get a placement .here sometimes the family starts objecting to her working decision, then the girl gets disheartened. Moreover, even if a girl gets permission from her family, the scenario outside becomes even worse than the rejection of her work by her parents. I mention WORSE because at her workplace or on the way to her workplace, she meets different people, who carry the same mindset of misbehavior and wait for a chance, these people not only start behaving badly, but they threaten her about revealing them to others. The process of harassment of the woman and suffering of her will not end here. The girl then tries to leave her workplace and decides to get married. Do you think that will put an end to this suffering, no, not really, but the process still continues and goes beyond the limit. Soon after the marriage the few weeks go normal and later she experiences the same old, the men take the shots at night and yell at their spouse for no reason. These men continue their verbal abuse for personal issues. In addition to this, if the woman has passed 1yr or so without having a child, there pops up a new suffering. The people start treating her differently. AS A BOTTOM OF THE LINE, Joyce cites that the suffering and agony in a girl's journey is NEVER ENDING PROCESS.

"TODAY THE WORLD IS IN A TERRIBLE CONDITION, BECAUSE OF SOME EVIL PEOPLE (BAD EGG)"

Joyce continues to express her emotion and views about the present scenario of assault on the girl, I wonder the way the rate of incidents is skyrocketing. I end up going bonkers when I see the graduated men involved in those cruel attacks because it makes no sense of their being possessing a tag of education if they indulge themselves in things that are against the law and ethics. Here the point is not literacy, above all that matters is a girl's life. It's very dishonoring to our country because the people in India have got so much liberty and so they rely on their own power. The people involved in Disha‘s murder were encountered after a very long gap. After that, there were some safety measures were taken and a team was appointed for girls' safety, but they remained unsuccessful. I don’t completely blame the government because it's equally important that a girl has to be cautious in her traveling. On the other hand, the incident of a girl and her sister walking on the road were grabbed by two strange worst men in the car. In this case, even if a girl is careful, she can't stop herself from taking her into the car. Therefore, it's very significant to take an action against such people. Not just sending the laws, but the implementation is all that matters. Joyce states that it’s a question for every girl HOW LONG WILL THIS PROCESS OF PERSECUTION CONTINUE? Surely it will remain as a NEVER ending process if no strict action is taken into consideration. I wish for a great transformation in regard to this incident, with the cooperation of the government. Also, let every girl stay strong by defending herself and approach every situation in a way of possibilities to success.

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